finetune: SGD optimizer, more CLI args (#13873)

* examples/finetune -opt SGD (stochastic gradient descent) memory opt

add unit tested GGML_OPT_OPTIMIZER_SGD to ggml - avoids allocating
m, v tensors.

support finetune.cpp arg -opt SGD (or sgd). (default adamw as before)

llama 3.2-1b-F32 result: observed 11gb gpu ram (41 sec/epoch)
when using SGD instead of 19gb (55 sec/epoch) using adamw.
(wikipedia 100 lines finetune)

(
using the same GPU memory, adamw can only do before OOM 512
batch/context, reaching:
train: [███████▉] data=0000140/0000140 loss=0.02575±0.00099 acc=99.52±0.03% t=00:00:47 ETA=00:00:00
val:   [███████▉] data=0000008/0000008 loss=4.76565±0.28810 acc=41.46±0.77% t=00:00:00 ETA=00:00:00

SGD is superior, though it converges slower, with max before OOM 1728
batch/context (esp see the better validation perf):
train: [███████▉] data=0000039/0000039 loss=0.00371±0.00010 acc=99.96±0.01% t=00:00:41 ETA=00:00:00
val:   [███████▉] data=0000003/0000003 loss=5.11406±0.76034 acc=48.01±0.69% t=00:00:01 ETA=00:00:00
)

note: when finetuning long enough (or w/ enough -lr),
validation accuracy *eventually* drops ('catastrophic forgetting')

-lr-half (halflife) option useful for SGD to avoid oscillation or
super slow underdamped learning (makes setting -lr more forgiving).
terminal -lr for now is set by lr-halvings i.e. if you want at most
1/8 the inital -lr you set -lr-halvings 3.

note: objective loss not directly comparable between adamw, sgd? -
check perplexity or accuracy or consider relative improvements
for convergence

new finetune args -wd 1e-9 to enable weight decay in sgd or adamw,
and max -epochs N (default 2 as before)

cache (1 - wd*alpha) in 'adamw' opt struct -
no noticeable perf benefit, disabled (still done
for new SGD though)

since opt. memory is pre-allocated, the ggml_opt_get_optimizer_params
would probably be able to change between SGD and AdamW with each epoch
but would need to use adamw for the first (unconfirmed - no cmdline arg
to set such a policy yet)

test-opt checks adamw as before and now sgd (except for a few disabled
tests for sgd only; probably just needs logging values and adding
alternate reference values);  tolerance on the 'regression'
test is broader for sgd (so we don't need many more epochs)

* Vulkan: Implement GGML_OP_OPT_STEP_SGD

* tests: Fix OPT_STEP_SGD test-backend-ops

* SGD op param store weight-decay and not 1-alpha*wd

* minor + cosmetic changes

* fix vulkan sgd

* try CI fix

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Co-authored-by: 0cc4m <picard12@live.de>
Co-authored-by: Johannes Gäßler <johannesg@5d6.de>

ggml/include/ggml.h

@@ -542,6 +542,7 @@ extern "C" {
         GGML_OP_CROSS_ENTROPY_LOSS,
         GGML_OP_CROSS_ENTROPY_LOSS_BACK,
         GGML_OP_OPT_STEP_ADAMW,
+        GGML_OP_OPT_STEP_SGD,
 
         GGML_OP_GLU,
 
@@ -2311,7 +2312,14 @@ extern "C" {
             struct ggml_tensor  * grad,
             struct ggml_tensor  * m,
             struct ggml_tensor  * v,
-            struct ggml_tensor  * adamw_params); // parameters such a the learning rate
+            struct ggml_tensor  * adamw_params); // parameters such as the learning rate
+
+    // stochastic gradient descent step (with weight decay)
+    GGML_API struct ggml_tensor * ggml_opt_step_sgd(
+        struct ggml_context * ctx,
+        struct ggml_tensor *  a,
+        struct ggml_tensor *  grad,
+        struct ggml_tensor *  sgd_params); // alpha, weight decay
 
     //
     // automatic differentiation