add cxxopts example and update lua (#73)

* add cxxopts example

* use new tags for lua

* update readme

* update readme

* update lua

* typo

examples/cxxopts/main.cpp

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+#include <cxxopts.hpp>
+#include <iostream>
+
+int main(int argc, char ** argv) {
+  cxxopts::Options options("MyProgram", "One line description of MyProgram");
+  options.add_options()
+    ("h,help", "Show help")
+    ("d,debug", "Enable debugging")
+    ("f,file", "File name", cxxopts::value<std::string>());
+
+  auto result = options.parse(argc, argv);
+  
+  if (result["help"].as<bool>()) {
+    std::cout << options.help() << std::endl;
+    return 0;
+  }
+
+  for (auto arg: result.arguments()) {
+    std::cout << "option: " << arg.key() << ": " << arg.value() << std::endl;
+  }
+
+  return 0;
+}